Monitoring Progress – Video 2
Welcome to the second video on measuring your progress. In the first video, you learned the best ways to monitor your progress for goals. In this video, we’ll talk about how to stick with a goal when your motivation wanes.
The middle problem
Most of us are highly motivated at the beginning. We are excited to reach our goal and we want to do it right. Over time, our motivation declines, and we lose steam. To the extent that our goal has a clear endpoint (such as graduating with a diploma), our motivation will pick up again toward the end. So how can we keep on track in the middle, when motivation is naturally low?
One solution is to keep middles short. A goal of saving $50 a month can be more motivating than a goal of saving $600 a year. Although you want to accomplish a long-term goal, setting boundaries that keep middles short can help you get there. Similarly, a weekly exercise goal has a short middle, unlike a monthly, yearly, or lifetime exercise goal.
Another strategy is to use landmark dates to celebrate a new beginning. We’re more likely to work harder immediately after New Year’s Day or our birthdays. Most people eat healthier food and exercise more in January than in any other month. Others remind themselves that today is the first day of the rest of their life. Psychologists call this the “fresh start effect,” and you can use it to keep yourself motivated.
Do it right
There’s another problem with middles: they undermine our motivation to do things right. You tend to be less methodical and careful in the middle of a task. Your attention can drift away. You might even compromise your ethical standards. Studies have found that people are more likely to cheat in the middle. Even adherence to tradition suffers in the middle. Those who observe the tradition of lighting the menorah candles over the eight nights of Hanukkah were more likely to do so on the first and last nights.
We tend to relax our standards in the middle, even if only we will know about it. The first and last actions in completing a goal are more memorable than actions in the middle. Knowing that we’ll forget what we’ve done in the middle, we subconsciously realize that relaxing our standards won’t undermine our self-esteem. It’s easier to hide from ourselves in the middle.
One study found that in the middle of pursuing a goal, people literally cut corners. We asked participants to use scissors to cut out five identical shapes. By the time they got to the third shape, they started cutting through more corners. As they got closer to completing the task, their shapes became neat again.
So keep your middles short. A weekly healthy-eating goal is better than a monthly healthy-eating goal, as it offers fewer days in the middle, when you might cheat on your diet. And if you’re handed a large project with a faraway deadline, start by breaking it into weekly assignments so that you don’t lose steam in the middle. Or, think of the present as a beginning or an end, not as the middle.
Now that you know how to keep yourself motivated in the middle of a goal, let’s test your expertise.